The INFJ best match balances their negative characteristics while gently challenging the private person to come out and to explore new aspects of life. See them as flaws. So perhaps that sort of query is common. Comments April Edwards not verified says Their strengths can add to each other. Having high expectations for their children's achievements, they are good at providing discipline and education. I suppose that might explain why I've never really felt "at home" and comfortable in my relationships thus far.
A final hindrance that could stay in the way of successful INFJ relationships is the fact these people can be extremely private.
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While INFJs are a rare personality type and they have various challenges to overcome, finding true love is possible. Complement - They have interests in similar realms but their strengths have opposite emphasis. I'm a 61 yr old male ENTP and been using dating sites for 18 months. That's a start for INFJs. Advisor - Each has insight that the other lacks. More on compatibility can be found under the "In Relationships" tab. But the questions do get you into a ballpark.